And don’t worry, I’m not about to tell you to workout more! 

We all want to look good - right? But does it mean starving yourself or hitting up the gym every chance you get?


Sex appeal. How can you achieve this? We all think about it. Whether you're trying to score a date or simply feeling better about yourself, we all have these thoughts. 

Okay, so you're not up-to-date on fashion trends. That's okay! Style doesn’t stem from a trend – that’s just capitalism, but I’ll do you a favor and withhold my “big business profits off of our insecurities” rant. Rather, style stems from your personality.

So if you don't know it yet – you're ALREADY sexy. The trick is learning to believe that's true! 

Here’s are three ways to fast track to your sexiest self.

1. Be Yourself

We’ve all heard this advice a million times, but I think sometimes it’s hard to know what exactly this means. So let me get specific.

Everyone’s inner sexy is unique, and we’re all drawn to different things. The key to your inner sexy is to slow down your thoughts, and discover what things you feel yourself being drawn towards. When you find it, don’t go yucking your own yum, lean in! Don’t worry about what everyone else thinks. 

Listen to yourself, find out what you like, and lean into the things that bring you joy and pleasure.

2. Relax

I once worked on a magazine shoot for the sexiest man alive – yes the one you’re thinking of, and the one my mother talks about for a full month out of every year.

And let me tell you, I was fully charmed. (Professional, of course. But CHARMED.)

Why? Because he was so down to earth. He was so calm, collected, and charming.

Here’s how the math works out. Cool people = chill. Chill people = sexy. 

3. Love Yourself

The best way to be your most sexy self is by being the first person to show yourself love. And don’t get it twisted – this does NOT mean you are unlovable until you love yourself. 

I’m sure you’ve heard of the cliche “you can’t pour from an empty cup”. And it’s true! The best way to exude sexiness is by treating yourself like someone who is really stunning. 

Give yourself some care and love. Tell yourself “you’re beautiful”. Give yourself an at-home spa day. Turn up some tunes, light a candle, put on your favorite cozy outfit, and treat yourself to some homemade dinner. 

You deserve to be treated with love, and (with a little practice) you can give an abundance of love to yourself.

Ready to 10x your spice and unleash your hottest self? It could be time for your next boudoir session...